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Our Business is a Relationship Business

February 27, 2020

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Our business is a relationship business. And when I say our business, I mean both investors and entrepreneurs. And I want to share some things that I think are a little counterintuitive, but will help you build better relationships across your business, especially between entrepreneurs and investors. You see, in my very first business, it was a custom software business. We wrote network database applications on a platform called MS-DOS. Some of you may never have even heard of it. It was the original business.

software platform, the original operating system for the PC. And a new product came out called

Windows. And Windows was this new fancy cool thing, but it was horrible. It was unstable. It was slow.

It was not fit for building business applications. And we were building real business applications.

Yet something started to happen. My developers started to look for other jobs because they

wanted to work in the new technology. And no matter how much I tried to convince them that MS-DOS was

the way to go, it was the best solution then, they weren't convinced. And I was worried I was going to

lose them. And then we had an aha moment. And what we did was we ended up sending them to seminars and

teaching them about programming in Windows and programming in an object-oriented language called

Smalltalk. And it was then when they felt like they were no longer being trapped. You see, if we were

only working in MS-DOS, they felt like they were in a dead-end job and they had to go get a new one.

But when they continued to learn about new technologies, then they felt like they could

leave any time. The longer they stayed with us, the more marketable they would be, and they stayed.

It's kind of counterintuitive. You may have experienced this personally with software.

Imagine a piece of software that you're using that feels like a dead-end product. They're not

enhancing it, they're not moving forward. You've got to get off that product and move on to the

next thing. But they could do some things to change that perspective. Imagine if they allow

you to download your data so that you own your data. Now you feel less trapped. Imagine if they

open source the source code so that you feel like you could actually take the code and modify it if

you need it. You feel less trapped. In both those cases, you're more likely to stay with that product

longer as an investor i feel very similarly there's some things that are counterintuitive

most people think they want to they want to show the bright shiny side to the investor they want

to talk about the good stuff but the reality is i want the bad news early i want to be the first call

when something is going wrong i want to know the problems in the companies we invest in

because I can help them fix it and I know that there aren't skeletons in the closet.

It's counterintuitive. Share the bad stuff with your investors. So the next time you're thinking

about whether you should take an action or not, think about the long-term implications

of your relationship and make sure that you take the path that will make it stronger in the long run.

Most entrepreneurs think that they should only show the good parts of their business to investors, while in reality, we want to hear the good, bad and the ugly. Transparency can create longer and stronger relationships.

Originally published on the MATH Venture Partners blog.