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Your Baby is Ugly!

June 20, 2019

Transcript

Intellectual honesty. It's something we've talked about before and frankly we're going to talk about again because it's something I believe is so critical to success in many businesses.

And we're not the only ones. 12-step programs use it, right? In Alcoholics Anonymous, the first step is to acknowledge you have a problem. You see, because once you know what the problem is, then you can work on fixing it.

And we as entrepreneurs, we've got a lot of problems and we have to acknowledge them so we can fix them. So how do we do this?

Well, internally, we do things like having KPIs, key performance indicators, but specifically

ones that are precise, sensitive to change, not averages over long periods of time, not

vanity metrics that can only go up, but things that are comparing how I did today to how

I did yesterday so I can see if I'm doing better or worse.

I had a really interesting experience I want to share with you with a CTO.

You see, every CTO I had worked with prior to this, when they would release a new product

or ask for testing, they'd be defensive and tell us how great the product was.

This CTO gave us a product and said, we're trying to release it next week,

but I won't release it until you find the first hundred bugs.

You see, he knew there were lots of flaws in his product,

and he wanted to be informed of what they were.

It aligned our interests.

We all had fun finding the bugs, and he wasn't defensive when we reported it.

As a matter of fact, he celebrated those bugs when we reported them.

We found over 100 bugs, squashed them all, and released a product that was really significantly better.

He gave us permission to tell the truth.

So when you go out externally to your customers, how do you get unvetted feedback?

How do you get the truth?

Well, the best way is when they buy your product, when they vote with their credit card, a paying customer.

But what do you do if you don't have a product yet?

You just have an idea.

I've got an idea for a new product, a better magic marker.

Well, if you want information about how good it is, go ask your friends and family.

Your mother is certainly going to tell you how wonderful the idea is.

But if you want the truth, if you want to be intellectually honest, you have to give

people permission to tell you that your product sucks.

Give people permission to tell you that your baby is ugly.

And how do you do that?

Well, big companies do it by hiring third parties to run focus groups.

Because if you're part of a focus group, you're not insulting anybody by giving them

honest feedback.

But we can't afford that as startups, so what do we do?

Well, we simulate it.

I don't go out and ask people, hey, I got this new product, what do you think of my

product?

Because human nature is they're going to tell me how great it is until they walk away and

laugh under their breath about how I'm going to fail.

What I do is I approach them and say, you know, I'm doing some research for a company

that has an idea for a product.

I don't even think this product is going to work very well, but do you have two minutes

to give me your feedback? In doing so, I just gave the person I'm talking to permission to tell me

the product sucks. Permission to tell me, really, my baby's ugly. Because if I know what the problems

are, I can fix them. So here's my advice to you. Always, always be intellectually honest.

Understand how your product or your company is broken so you can fix it. Fix what's broken,

and it'll allow you to grow.

And by the way, as you grow,

what worked yesterday isn't going to work today.

New things are going to break and you repeat the process.

And that is how you create a great company.

This week Troy walks you through an experience he had during a product launch with a CTO. Most CTO’s he has worked with in the past tend to insist the product they are putting out is perfect and get defensive when you tell them otherwise, but this CTO did something totally unexpected. Always make sure you are giving people permission to tell you the truth. Don’t ask people “what do you think of my product” as very few will be comfortable telling you the truth. Use the hack to get them to tell you why your baby is ugly!

Originally published on the MATH Venture Partners blog.